Why Paring?
“Paring” of modules is necessary to establish wireless communication via ESP-NOW. To avoid external interventions or even highjacking your controls, each module has to have knowledge about it’s communication partners. Stating the Espressif website, ESP-NOW is a “protocol developed by Espressif, which enables multiple devices to communicate with one another without using Wi-Fi. The protocol is similar to the low-power 2.4GHz wireless connectivity (…) . The pairing between devices is needed prior to their communication. After the pairing is done, the connection is safe and peer-to-peer, with no handshake being required.”
After pairing a module with each other, the connection is persistent. In other words, if suddenly one of your modules loses power or resets, when it restarts, it will automatically connect to its peer to continue the communication.
Although it is possible for the individual modules to communicate with each other, this option is not useful in most cases. Main communications is between the “brain”/shield in the body and each other module.
When using “automatic pairing” each module knows about the partners that are relevant and will store the MAC addresses. When using “manual paring” it is necessary, that the user has knowledge about the way the AstroCAN is designed to work.